The Secret to Getting the Twilight Years You Really Want

4 The Secret to Getting the Twilight Years You Really Want Header ImageAre you ready for the hard parts of growing older?

It’s not the aspect of retirement that involves your dreams – the long sailing trips, the time with family and friends. These are the difficult decisions and unpleasant realities: the medical bills, reduced mobility, and possibility of living longer than your assets.

Few of us like to think about these issues, let alone manage them.

But while life’s ups and downs can’t be planned, they can be planned for – at least to some degree. And in that reality is the secret to getting the elderly years you’re hoping for.

Start planning now – no matter how old you are

 In our experience, there are many adult children who become gravely worried about their parents.

We’ve had clients ask us for our advice on a disabled mother who insisted on living by herself, a grandfather who it turned out was pinching pennies on groceries to pay for his blood pressure medication, and a multi-generational family struggling with the cost of specialized nursing care for a parent with Alzheimer’s.

These are very real – and extremely common – situations, and they arise in practices like ours every single day.

That’s why we emphasize the importance of planning for the long term. For the very long term.

Where to start

You can’t know if you’ll develop dementia or suffer a disabling fall, but you can consider your financial security in retirement.

We suggest asking yourself these questions to get started:

  1. What is my expected retirement income and how long can I expect it to last? A 30-year time horizon for your retirement income is not an unrealistic goal: if you’re married and age 65 today, the odds are 1 in 3 that one of you will see the other side of age 95.
  2. What are my key health risks, and what resources do I have in place to address them? For some retirees, long-term care insurance is a no-brainer. For others, it’s a second-best choice to other strategies. The right plan for you is unique and depends on your overall financial picture, your health, and your goals and risk factors in retirement. Be sure to consider them – and what you can do to reduce the potential financial impact of a health crisis.
  3. What are the best contingency plans for my situation? The possibilities here are wide, and the best solutions are as unique as you are. Some early retirees consider this issue and decide to downsize to a dedicated retirement community, where there’s a greater scope of services for aging residents. Others remodel their homes for accessibility. For other risks, retirees might decide to review their investment plans or insurance coverage, and still others reconsider their budget and asset mix.

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Build fallback plans

This is the part where you ask yourself, “What would I do if…?” It’s not the most pleasant exercise, but it is an important one. Simply having a plan in place can help you bypass some of the worst pitfalls of various health, financial, and personal issues.

A few risk factors that retirees face can include: 

  • A chronic health problem that becomes progressively worse, such as heart disease
  • A health crisis like cancer or an injury
  • The need for a long-term stay in a nursing home
  • A disability or reduced mobility
  • The possibility of living to 95 and beyond
  • A market disruption that affects bond or equity investments
  • A significant decline in home values
  • The loss of a spouse

If you’re response to any of these situations is, “I have no idea what I’d do,” it’s time to start thinking.

Again, we are very sensitive to the fact that these are difficult questions to grapple with, but taking the time to do it when they’re not an issue, you’ll be far better off sh

ould any of these situations come to pass.

We suggest getting started with our special guides, downloads, and articles on these subjects. They’ll help walk you through some of the basics and give you a starting point in making your own plans.

Consider the unique aspects of your situation

For all of these issues, consider looking at some of the unique factors in your own life, whether financial, health-related, or family-based.

To start, it can be a good idea to have a hard look at your life expectancy – and the possibility that it will be a lot longer than you might realize. After all, you don’t need to come from a long-lived family to live a very long life!

You might also want to consider your health. Many retirees are healthy until they aren’t, while others go into retirement with chronic health issues or disability. Consider your situation, and recognize even if you’re in great health now that this may change.

In terms of family, having children or other loved ones nearby can also affect your possible outcomes. Some elderly parents prefer to move in with adult children or downsize to a home nearby so that it’s easier to get help. In the absence of family, it might make sense to factor potential costs like transportation, housecleaning, or home healthcare services into your contingency plans.

You’ve considered your retirement: what about your parents?

Helping an elderly parent or family member navigate the last years of life can be stressful – and scary. Download our free guide to the twilight years to get simple tools and smart action plans in managing a loved one’s later retirement – and get great ideas for your own.

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Let Us Help!

We can discuss this topic and more at a complimentary appointment. As a bay area retirement planning coaches, we can give you a review and make suggestions based on your retirement objectives.

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& Associates Insurance Services or United Planners Financial Services (United Planners). The opinions voiced in this article are for general information only. They are not intended to provide specific advice or recommendations for any individual and do not constitute an endorsement by United Planners.

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